Coaching · Inquiry
Life moves in cycles, and every decade something shifts at the root. In 2006 it was a quiet dissatisfaction with my work — a loss of meaning that sent me toward something more essentially human. A few years later, divorce arrived and shook the entire architecture of what I believed my life was supposed to be. In the rubble of that, some real questions emerged: who am I really? and what do I actually want? The conventional map no longer pointed anywhere I recognized.
What followed was a long season of inner and outer exploration. Then, in 2016, another threshold: the realization that life has its own rhythm, independent of the one I had imagined. I grieved the family I wouldn't have, the life as I had scripted it — and slowly learned to inhabit the one that was actually unfolding. It held less of what I had planned, and more adventure, more depth, more learning than I could have anticipated.
Now I am in another phase, still finding its shape. What I have now, that I didn't always have, is a closer relationship with my body and with something I can only call my feminine nature. My contemplative practice is a big support.
Gail Sheehy called these moments passages — transitions that arise between decades and can last for years. I have lived several of them now, more are yet to come, hopefully. My learning is to stay willing to be surprised by the mystery of life.
I know what it is to stand at the edge of an identity that no longer holds, to grieve a version of life that won't arrive, and to slowly find ground in what is actually here. That is the territory I work from.
"Transformation is inevitable. The only question is whether we meet it with courage, compassion, and openness." — Maria-Magdalena
Learning, for me, has never been a box to tick. Every training, certification, and methodology I've explored has been driven by genuine curiosity and by a commitment to first embody what I learn before bringing it into my work with people.
Coaching is at the heart of what I do. But I've never been someone who does just one thing. Here's some of what else I've been up to.
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